I am currently employeed at a small community bank as the safe deposit box attendant. I am also expected to answer all of the calls, approx 500-600 a day as well as assist that VP of marketing. I am getting so worn out and feel like i am not getting paid enough. This is not a place where you ask for a raise by the way. I have faxed in my resume to a law office to apply for their position as a receptionist/gopher..as they put it...I am just so torn....i feel that even though my job is so stressful...maybe it is more stable.... I am 21 and married and I need to have a job. I feel so torn right now..i just don't know what to do with my life. I talked to my mom and she said she thought it was a good idea for me to apply for the runner job if i was currently unhappy....then i talked to my sister who at one time was a runner at some firm and she said that i don't need to do it, that i would get tired of it really fast. Could someone give me some advice..i am not asking you to make my decsion for me i just want your opinion. I am trying to build a career for myself and i feel very lost right now.